Now, when you think of a group of friends in the Bible, who comes to mind? David and Johnathan? Paul and Silas? The disciples? Yeah, that's what generally comes to my mind too. However, lately I've found other friendship that's not really noticed. At least, I had never noticed it before. It's in Daniel Chapter 3. Yeah, that's right: the Three Hebrew Children. Often times we get our mind set on the miracle of Jesus walking in the fiery furnace and the children coming out unharmed, and that's good!! Don't forget that! To me, it's one of the most powerful stories in the Bible. But for a moment, I would like to focus on their friendship.
I encourage you to open your Bible to this story, but if it's not handy, I will summarize it for you. I'm sure we all know the story. King Nebuchadnezzar made a golden statue and told everyone to worship it. Well, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego refused to do so. So, as a punishment, the king order them to be thrown into a burning fiery furnace. The King even order them to heat it seven times hotter than usual. So, they threw the children down bound into the furnace. Well, a little time goes by and Nebuchadnezzar looks down into the furnace to find, not three men, but four men loose and walking around, and one is likened unto the son of God. The King let's them out and Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego come out unharmed.
As I said earlier, this is a huge miracle, and we often just set our minds on that and nothing else. However, once you think about it, look at the friendship these Hebrew children must have had! I discovered a few similarities about these three men.
Number One: They stood out. "There are certain Jews whom thou hast set over the affairs of the province of Babylon, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego; these men O king, have not regarded thee: they serve not thy gods nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up." Daniel 3:12. They were the only ones not worshiping the golden image. Others might have looked at them like they were strange. The truth was, there wasn't many like them. They were noticed, and not always in a good way. But, God was saw in their lives. When you find a real friend, you'll notice how they stick out. You'll see that their beliefs are practically the same as yours and notice the power of God in their lives. You might even stick out together to where the world may see the power of God in your lives.
Number Two: They stuck together. Daniel 3:12. When you see these men mentioned, they are always as a group: Shadrach, Meshach, AND Abednego. They stayed together and didn't leave even when they faced judgement and the threat of the fire. It wasn't just Shadrach, or it wasn't just Abednego who got thrown in. It was all three. When you are faced with the troubles and the trails of this life, it's good to have a real friend by your side. They won't leave you in the fire, in fact, that's when it seems they're there the most. They don't worry about themselves and won't abandon you because of the treat to them. They'll stay no matter what.
Number Three: They stood their ground. "But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up." Daniel 3:18. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego refused to bow down to Nebuchadnezzar's idol. They set in their minds that they would not betray their God no matter the cost. We all need to have this kind of friendship. We need to all stand for God no matter what the world may say. Our friends will stand for God no matter what, and won't go after the "new," "popular" things the world puts out.
Number Four: They survived the fire. "Then Nebuchadnezzar came near to the mouth of the burning fiery furnace, and spake, and said, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, ye servants of the most high God, come forth and come hither. Then, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, came forth of the midst of the fire." Daniel 3:26. The three Hebrew children all when into the fire together and all came out together. I'm sure the fire got really hot, but they didn't leave each other. We may h ave certain friends that will say they'll go with you all the way, but when the going gets tough, they'll leave you to basically fend for yourself. You need to have a friend that won't leave you in the midst of the fire, and you need to be the kind of friend that won't let them give up and quit. We need to be there for each other, to encourage one another, and keep running the race.
Number Five: They were surrounded by God. "He answered and said, Lo, I see four men loose, walking in the midst of the fire, and they have no hurt; and the form of the fourth is like the Son of God." Daniel 3:25. When the Hebrews were in the fire, God was with them. They weren't alone. Your friendship should be so strong because of the fact that God is ruling in your lives. You don't have to only rely on your friends, because, as I said, they may fail you sometimes. None of us are perfect. However, God is someone you can always depend on. He is our truest friend, and nobody can steal him away. But, he does decide to send certain individuals in our life. I've heard it said before: When God puts friends together, they stay friends forever. A real friendship is one built on the Lord, and it will never work unless you allow God to be in control. A lot of friendships nowadays are built upon wealth, popularity, etc. But, only a friendship on the things of God will survive the fire.
So, how about it? What kind of friends are you surrounding yourself with? What kind of friend have you been lately? Most importantly, what kind of role does God play in your friendship?
